Recently I moved to the country/ town where my boyfriend lives, after a few months of long-distance relationship with visits intermittent. Two things happened when I got here, however, which have me thinking. First, when I arrived I was very ill with a horrible cold.
Your ex-girlfriend wasn’t to meet you for lunch on Friday.” I was very tired and just went up to bed. He defended being friends with her (they dated for about two years) saying she helped him during a very difficult time in his life and so on. Also, I pointed out his tendency to keep his relations with her private.
Once in the past, he had received a text from her and he turned over the phone so I wouldn’t notice.
Your boyfriend has only lost interest in you if he shows no affection when you’re both healthy, not when you’re both sick. Next, you “made the mistake of looking at his text message,” and then “you made the mistake of scrolling back and reading the conversation” and then you made the mistake of bringing this whole thing up with him and then you made the mistake of thinking that it’s inappropriate for ex’s to be friends…
I could go on, but this is enough of a run-on sentence already. The only thing that jealousy indicates is how insecure you are. If you have a man that’s untrustworthy, then he shouldn’t be your boyfriend.
4) You’ll make him feel that he can find a woman who DOES trust him.