EDITOR' S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.
Just because a person is born into a religious group, attends a specific place of worship, or listens to a certain pastor doesn’t necessarily mean that person lives by ALL of those principles explicitly. A church sign is also not a clear indication of what each and every person who enters the building believes.
Many of us don’t always agree with everything spoken nor the manner in which church business is handled, yet we still attend for other reasons.
Perhaps your partner goes to a different denomination (tip: learning about denominational differences could help you prevent a major dating blunder! Maybe you found out they believe it's important to be submerged when baptized, while your church thinks a sprinkle is OK.
Maybe you found out they believe women should be silent in the church, while you believe they have a voice.
Let's assume that you are both Christians, both saved and following the Lord every day.