Each word & gesture is permanently available for review, especially those which can be interpreted as evidence in favor of “return of feeling.” When objects, people, places or situations are encountered with the limerent object, they are vividly remembered.
In most cases it also declines, eventually to zero or to a low level.
At this low level, limerence is either transformed through reciprocation or it is transferred to another person who then becomes the new limerent object.
Neutral aspects of the limerent object are perceived as charming & delightful.
No matter what the limerent object does it can be interpreted favorably, at least up to a point.
There is an amazing capacity to react positively to deficiencies.